Its actually against islamic teachings to force someone into marriage..

So what? It’s also against the teachings of Jesus to rob the poor blind, but look at which nation is doing that the most in the western part of the world, the most religious one, the USA. You can take any particular bad thing that SOME Muslims do and say it’s against Islam, but for those people it obviously wasn’t, and nobody bothered to tell them either, so it doesn’t matter whether you can interpret Islam to say X if a sizeable amount of other people don’t interpret it like that or disagrees.