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Svar til Birgitte Gunnersens kommentar på min kommentar til Mattias Tesfaye om artiklen “Film nægtes støtte, fordi hovedperson er brun”

Birgitte Gunnersen Jeg er enig med dig, Troels, vil blot lige tilføje, at race og etnisk baggrund ikke er det samme. Man kan godt tilhøre samme race, men have forskellig etnisk baggrund.

@ Birgitte Gunnersen

Jeg sagde netop også, at vi på dansk har __erstattet__ ordet “race” med “etnisk baggrund”, fordi det er ikke helt så ubehageligt et udtryk (Og som er længere fra det ord ingen kan tale godt om, “racisme”, som bringer billeder af apartheid på nethinden) selv når der er tale om race (Som i tilfældet med den pågældende artikel), selvom der, som du siger, er en forskel på de to ord, i den forstand, at man godt kan dele race, uden at være af samme etniske gruppe (Mit fødeland er et godt eksempel, konflikten mellem singalesere og tamiler, videnskabsfolk har påvist at der ingen genetisk forskel er).

Det er en klassisk dansk måde, at negligere egentlige problemer, ved enten ikke at ville eller kunne forholde sig til og/eller forstå problemerne (Det har min adoptivmor udvist omkring tre milliarder gange).

I nogle tilfælde er det jo så åbenlyst bevidst, man hører ofte Dansk Folkeparti tale om folk med “anden etnisk baggrund”, selv når der åbenlyst er tale om race, man hører dem ikke sige folk “med anden race”, fordi så ville alle med det samme, og med rette pege fingre af dem som racister.

Et andet eksempel, som jeg finder yderst frustrerende, er at mange hvide danskere har så travlt med, at kritisere folk med rødder i Mellemøsten og Afrika for kun at gifte sig med folk fra deres egne “etniske grupper” ***. Men samtidig skal jeg, som adoptant, se på, at hvide danske piger f.eks. siger noget i retning af “Jeg er ikke interesseret i mørke/etniske fyrer, er ikke racist, I tænder mig bare ikke”, og derefter finde opbakning i blandt andre hvide danskere (Fyrer/mænd og piger/kvinder) til påstanden om, at der ikke er tale om racisme.

Det er ligegodt godt gået synes jeg. Altså, der påstås at sammenhængskraften i dette land er kongehuset, kirken, og blah blah, til det siger jeg “VÅS!”, sammenhængskraften i alle lande, og i særdeleshed mindre nationer som Danmark, er hvad jeg kalder nationalt hykleri og bullshit. Enhver nation har en eller anden bullshit fortælling om sig selv, som retfærdiggør dens eksistens, fordi nationer har åbenbart brug for en kompliceret retfærdiggørelse, fremfor at sige “Vi eksisterer, lad os få et godt samfund ud af det”. Som den afdøde amerikanske komiker George Carlin sagde i en rutine: “Bullshit is the glue that binds us as a nation” (“Bullshit er limen der binder os sammen som nation”).

***) I øvrigt, lige til ord-valget her, når det underforstås at det ville være en god udvikling hvis efterkommere af indvandrer fra Mellemøsten og Afrika giftede sig med “etniske danskere”, så er det race der er tale om, hvornår har man sidst set en hvid person fra enten Mellemøsten eller Afrika, som værende målet for en sådan debat?

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Kommentar til Mathias Tesfaye om artiklen “Film nægtes støtte, fordi hovedperson er brun” fra Dagbladet Information

@ Mattias Tesfaye

(Som det måske fremgår af mit mellemnavn er jeg adopteret fra Sri Lanka, derfor også brun)

Det må være begge dele fordi instituttets afslag siger jo ikke bare, at race (Interessant at vi i Danmark har erstattet det ord med “etnisk baggrund”) er en grund til, at give afslag, men også at alle udenfor København er en bunke frådende racister. Fordi vi ved jo, at alt udenfor den kære hovedstad er øde! Aarhus? Aalborg? Pfff, det er jo længere ude på Lars Tyndskids mark end Gaddafis bedduintelt!

Da jeg læste artiklen på Information, og efterfølgende kommentarer, at det her er ikke blot en nedgørelse, fornærmelse og åbenlyst diskrimination imod danskere som ikke er hvide, men også en åbenlyst hån mod hele det ikke-københavnske Danmark.

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En adoptants perspektiv

Nydanske piger viderefører en forældet og tilbagestående ægteskabslogik, mener Sara Islam Baram.

Kilde: Kære medsøstre, danske mænd bider altså ikke!

Jeg er adopteret fra Sri Lanka (Øen syd lige syd for Indien), og noget jeg oplever, som værende skræmmende udbredt er, at mange (Naturligvis ikke alle), for nu at sige det ligeud, hvide danske piger/kvinder udøver samme “etniske præference”, som vi kan observere at en del piger/kvinder iblandt nydanskere gør i forhold til deres egne etniske grupper. Nogle er ærlige nok til, at sige det åbent, og jeg ville VIRKELIG gerne vide hvor mange, som ikke er helt så åbne, og derfor holder det for dem selv, fordi de er bange for, at blive set ned på, da de godt ved, at de ville blive opfattet som racister af mange.

Så må jeg roligt, og stilfærdigt opfordre mine medborgere til, udover at kritisere forkvaklede kulturelle praksisser hos nydanskere, også at se indad, og eliminere den samme præference hos dem selv, fordi det præcist samme problem, bare fra etniske/hvide danskeres side, går altså ud over os som er adopteret, som ofte er glemt i denne, og relaterede diskussioner.

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Medier, adoptivbørn og højrefløjspropaganda

Özlem Sara Cekic (SF) skrev her til eftermiddag på Facebook:

Da drengene blev dømt i 2008 for voldtægt understregede flere medier at det var indvandredrenge og idag hvor de er frikendt fordi pigen havde løjet, er de bare unge drenge.. Lidt reflektion vil være godt for medierne!

Løj om voldtægt – dømt til behandling – dr.dk/Nyheder/Indland

Jeg kommenterede følgende:


@ Özlem Sara Cekic

Helt enig. I øvrigt, noget jeg har tænkt på er, hvordan ville medierne rapportere om en sag hvor en dansker, som var adopteret fra f.eks. Sydkorea eller Sri Lanka (Jeg er selv adopteret fra Sri Lanka), havde begået noget kriminelt? Ville man blive portreteret som “invandre-<indsæt et eller andet udtryk>” ? Eller “en dansker med anden etnisk herkomst”, eller bare “en mand/kvinde fra <land>…”, eller bare “en mand/kvinde …” ?

Det ville være en rigtig god lakmustest på, niveauet af racisme i dette land. Invandrer er altid blevet diskrimineret imod, selv de hvide irer som immigrerede til USA blev set ned på (De var jo katolikker), præcis som vi europæere i dag ser ned på invandre som er muslimer. Men adoptivbørn er jo en speciel gruppe, fordi synet på folk som mig afslører med det samme enhver form for racisme, da man jo ikke kan bruge ordet “invandrer” om mig og stadig “fremstå”, som værende ikke racistisk.

Det er i øvrigt noget jeg synes for mange taler for lidt om, hvordan påvirker Dansk Folkepartis dæmonisering af “fremmede” adoptivbørn eller synet på dem?

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Voyage through cyberspace run aground!

Last Wednesday (4th of March, 2009) when I sat down in front of my computer, after watching TV in the living room, I noticed that the Internet had mysteriously dropped off completely. Applications I use that depend on Internet connectivity had throw up error messages etc. I tried resetting my ADSL modem, my routers, everything, but nothing worked, the Internet was dead. So on Friday I called my ISP, and they ran a test on my connection and it showed that there’s a cabling problem somewhere. They did book a technician to look into it, but that wouldn’t happen for another 6 – 10 days. Really, really, really, REALLY annoying, when you pretty much use the Internet all-day everyday.

It’s said that you take stuff for granted until you loose it, or are otherwise without it. And holy crap, that statement really holds some truth in it! Except for the fact that loss of Internet connectivity is not life threatening, right now I feel like I was out, by myself, sailing on the open ocean, and my engine broke down, I called for help on the radio, but assistance wouldn’t come for another 6 – 10 days! It’s tough in many ways. I would probably feel lonely a lot more than I do without the Internet, it’s like it enables me to be on my own, but not be alone or lonely.

Now, I’m sure you’re asking “If your Internet connection is out, how the hell can you post on your blog?!!?!?”, well, desperate situations call for desperate action! I’ve snuck into the computer room of the school I went to last year, and with my laptop in hand, is snooping on their Internet connection. Think of it as you wish! :P

I’m a big dreamer, both in terms of actual dreams when I’m asleep, and also day-dreams. Of course I’m looking forward to be back online for real, but also in a slightly dreamy sense. At home I have also erected a computer lab in my room, I run a very sophisticated firewall, a DNS server, a web server, and many other things, fairly massive given the location. When I can reconnect to the Internet, it’s gonna be like in episode 15 of the anime series Last Exile, when the Silvana (Big-ass, steam-powered, airborne capital ship), after almost being sunk, and some on-spot repairs by crew-mechanics, can finally take off again.

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Another education attempt bites the dust! – Followup

As I said a few days ago, on the 26th another attempt for me to get an education failed, luckily it wasn’t a crash landing like last time this happened in 2006. I was at Vejle Handelskole on the clarification of AspIT, a relatively new kind of education, the website for it says (Google Translate):

“AspIT is a customized training model for young people with Asperger syndrome. We started in Vejle, and today is a nationwide offer to young people with what we call talent focused on IT. At the same time AspIT also worth keeping an eye on for Danish companies looking for new employees with a unique flair to many of the IT tasks that other young people find it difficult to resolve.

AspIT is the world’s first IT training for young people with Asperger syndrome. And Aspi is not like other young people. They are characterized by being good at their profession, very loyal, very honest, and they have an intelligence level between normal and high combined with an excellent memory abilities. Our experience tells that it is properties that many companies appreciate.

The concept for AspIT is simple. We are starting with the young Aspi’ers strengths, and develop each student’s talent. We do this with special regard to the requirements of an Asperger have to acquire new knowledge. That means small teaching teams with personalized learning in a safe and trusting working day.

Teaching is a carefully planned combination of education at one of five vocational schools that offer training model, and internships in companies.

That young people can gain qualifications through a training course organized according to their specific needs, there is no doubt about that. After three years students have achieved verifiable, personal and IT-related skills which enable them to solve concrete tasks for companies implement practical training, and receive learning at a high level of IT.”

This all sounds great, and to be honest I think for some people this might be great, however for me, it proved to be very disappointing, humiliating, frustrating, confidence-ruining etc. etc.

So now I’m back at a total blank! I’m getting really tired of this education rush, everything I’ve been trying for the last four years (I finished public school in 2005) has utterly failed, or at least havn’t gotten me any further.

I believe in the concept of “From each according to his ability, to each according to his needs!” originally put forward by Karl Marx, and I am quite willing to contribute to society to the best of my ability, but nobody will give me a job, so what’s a guy to do? It’s quite depressing. Here I am with quite a bit of knowledge about computers, and society is increasingly using computers for more and more, and is at the same time in need of more people to administer those systems, yet nobody will hire me to do anything. Quite sad really, it’s a loose-loose situation if you ask me. I loose because I can’t get a job and thereby no money to live for, and society is without one more skilled worker in IT.

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Another education attempt bites the dust!

So today I ended another attempt at getting an education, *sigh*, this time it was something called AspIT that completely and utterly failed on me. Well, it’s a familiar pattern, luckily this time I didn’t crash-land.

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I quit … HALLELUJAH!!!

Just came back from a visit to the local church office on my parish, where I filled out a form to quit the Danish state church, folkekirken. Boy does it feel good to finally having that done! :D

I’m fairly happy I got this done this week, because next week is my 20th birthday, so I’ll be entering a new decade in my life, with this fresh change, which is going to be nice. Now I never have to worry about accidentally paying the church tax (In the case I had forgotten about quitting the state church) when I get a job in the future, which would go towards funding what I have termed the Sunday Circus, when I am being polite, or the weekly circle jerk on Sundays, when I am not being polite.

Anyway, I hope we Danes get our act together and separate church and state in the future, if the Swedes can do it, bloody hell we can too!
Being a socialist, I am obviously not that big a fan of privatizations, however there is one privatization I’d love to see done, and that would be the privatization of the Danish state church, buildings, employees, every damn thing that has got to do with this joke that only 2,5% of the population actually use. And then we could stop spending 650 million DKK a year for funding this stuff!
If we look at history, it shows us that there’s tons of money in religion, I’m sure there’d be a buyer for the state church! :twisted:

If you are a member of the Danish state church, and just got offended, look in the upper-right corner of your screen, there’s a small button with a cross on it, just click that, come on go ahead! ;)

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The postage system took a dump … again!!!

Yesterday I ordered a Promise SATA300 TX4 controller, and it did get shipped yesterday, but yet again Post Danmark (The company that runs the postage administration) took a dump in a beer can, because the package didn’t get moving in the system before today!!! This really pisses me off. My fuse is very short when dealing with these guys, because it’s not the first time these morons have burned me. Sometimes I can see the argument that liberals often make, about how government sponsored monopolies are bad for consumers, because Post Danmark gets away with charging me up the ass for crappy service. The only thing that saves the grace is the PD employees, who have delivered stuff to me recently, they have been very nice.

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The red and green flags gets raised for real!

Socialistisk Folkeparti, SF, Socialist People's Party, SPP

Early this month I joined a political party here in Denmark called Socialist People’s Party (Danish: Socialistisk Folkeparti, commonly shortened to just SF), which has recently been attracting quite a few new members, after a good result in the last election (Where they more than doubled their number of seats in parliament).

Personally, I hope to attend party meeting and events that I find relevant in the future. If you’re a member of SF and reading this, I hope to meet you some day! :)

I’ve also updated the “My Political Position” of my blog accordingly.

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